Saturday, November 1, 2014
Bio
I come from a family of 10 (13 if you count my step-parents and 1/2 brother), so having someone to play with, growing up, was never a problem. We moved only one time in my childhood, and it was only a few miles away. My parents were normal parents, and I had a pretty good childhood.
I was a swimmer in high school, and we were a virtually undefeated team. I wrestled one year, and lost only one match, but a knee injury prevented me from pursuing the sport. I loved swimming, though. Being in the water was always second nature to me. I don't know if there is a better feeling than cutting through the water as fast as you can. I was an avid rock-climber along with my brother and friends, and enjoyed just about any outdoor activity you can imagine.
I was fortunate enough to meet the love of my life at the tender age of 16. I know most people don't believe in love at first sight, but I can tell you, from first hand knowledge, that it exists. I believe that there is a reason for most of the things that happen in our lives, and I believe that I met her when I did because that was the time I would need her most. My parents divorced shortly after I met my wife, and she became my shoulder to cry on.
When I was 19, I went to Sao Paulo, Brazil, to serve and L.D.S. mission for two years. I learned the difficult language Portuguese, and discovered a wonderful culture and people. The Brazilian people I met are the nicest people in the world. I love them dearly. I still have many friends from Brazil with whom I keep contact. Learning Portuguese allows me to understand Spanish and Italian, though I can't really speak those languages. It has also opened my eyes to aspects of the English language that only learning another Latin-based language can do.
I always dreamed of working in the medical field. I had the grades to back up my dream, and even graduated high school with a medical assistant degree. But life had other plans for me. I married my beautiful wife just two months after returning from Brazil. It was a crazy time. There was so much to get use to. I took the first job I could get so that I could afford a ring, and we threw together a wedding in a fast and furious frenzy. It's the one decision I've never regretted.
We now have three kids that are the joy of our lives.
I worked in sales for almost ten years before I couldn't work anymore. Some time after returning from Brazil, I started having stomach problems. Things escalated to the point that I was throwing up several times a day, having seizures, I had a mini-stroke, thick blood, and a mountain of other problems. The doctors could identify all of my symptoms but almost none of the causes. It was a frustrating time. My wife and I decided to switch places. She became the provider, and I became the "mom". It was quite the adjustment for both of us. Luckily, I knew how to cook (I quite enjoy it, actually) but the rest of it was almost beyond me. I take my hat off to all you mommies out there.
In the last year or two I've been able to level out my disease through diet, medicine, and life-style changes to a point that I can live a reasonably normal and happy life. I did, however, want more from life. I wanted to be something, and since medicine was out of the question, I started looking at my favorite hobbies. Writing instantly became the winner for, "what I wanted to be when I grew up."
I have written two books, Dragon Warrior and Dragon Sight which I self-published mostly because of intimidation of the publishing world. I'm learning new things about writing, advertising, promoting, and balancing a personal life every day.
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